6/06/2007

Your "Loser" Friends...

"Friends are going anywhere in life, I will always be down for them because I know where I'M going!" thinks Nefty to herself... Now I find it disturbing when people let their friends down because they're twisted, not settled in life, etc. I would understand if that friend was bringing you down with him but other than that, why crush a friendship you treasured so much? If you know where you are going in your life, congrats:]Which is my point, if you know we're you are heading in life, GO FOR IT! Just know, that friendship you crushed because he/she is looking a loser, there will always be "losers" in life, including friends of yours. Well either way, I'll always be down for my homies. Living here in the dirty, dirty, too much love for one another to literally watch each other crumble into a "loser." I call that a loser!

18 comments:

kaylee said...

NICE POST!GREAT WORDS thats exactly what I think a "loser" friend is:)

Michelle said...

if u don't accept ur frnds for who they are, u have no business calling them ur frnds.they are better off without u...thats my philosophy :)

Andrew The Asshole said...

This comment sounds familar from one of my post. You are only a loser when you quit on yourself. Being friends is to have something to relate on. You may not get rid of them as friends but the communication might be strained when you decide to reach for the stars and they want to you to stay with them in the average crowd.

Mentor once told me "if you can't change your friends for the better then change your friends."

Jewel Rays said...

awesome stuff nefty!!:D

angry ballerina said...

isn't a loser just someone who doesn't win? Or they just suck at life.

Barbara said...

nice post. take care ;)

Evil Spock said...

Because I've left my hometown to go to college, I've gone through many sets of friends. Don't worry, you'll replace those you've left behind.

SJ said...

Also many so called "losers" go on to be great people later on. Nobody stays down for long.

confessing7girl said...

maybe they arent suppose to be called friends!!!!! and depending on the loser, losers can still be sexy as hell ... ok whatever im off topic im taking my meds!!

Enemy of the Republic said...

Love it. And no one knows where they are going--they only think they do. We write out great scripts for our lives, and so much can fuck it up. You are so great to read, Nefty.

Rajeev said...

great post nefty! :)

peace & love
Jeevy

singleton said...

"If you know where you are going in your life, congrats:]"....

for the rest of us, theres mastercard and friends....
sometimes they rip us off and sometimes, they're just worth it....

you always get me going, girl!

choochoo said...

some friends last for ever, and those friendships are tremendously important. Other times you discover that you just don't have anything in common with them anymore, like if you're heading in widely different directions in life, and then the relationship takes a break or dies naturally, which is probably best for everyone involved.

Neo said...

some friends do last forever but finding such friends is hard...i can say from experience that i have been hurt by ppl whom i considered my best pals n ppl whom i had no idea existed have stood by me thru my tuff times...

`NEFTY said...

@ kaylee & michelee
Thanks for the comments.

@ andrew
Thank you for inspiring me. && that quote doesn't make sense.

@ jewel, angry, barb
Thanks for the comments.

@ spock
I never said I "left" my friends...

@ sj
True, very true!:]

@ confess-g
Yeah, I was thinking, WTF in my head=P

@ enemy
"And no one knows where they are going--they only think they do." Definitly feelin' you on that.

@ rajeev & singleton
Thanks for the comments.

@ choo & neo
Ummm, thanks for the comments...

curryegg said...

I hate those friends!
I met a few too but I just hope that they know their problems.
Anyway, I hope that I'm not in the list either..
Cheer up!

`NEFTY said...

@ curry
I'm not sad..........-.-

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