Nefty sends this message to the women out there in a commited relationship;;; Don't ever let your life be controlled by your man! I don't give a smack if you are in love, marriage... Whatever it is, keep your head up && live your life because it being controlled... Well that's not your life! I'm sending this out to you girls because I saw some shows where women are desperate to be out of controlled relationships && it's horrible what shizz they're going through. Their "lover" making them prostitute, they're abusing them mentally && physically, having them be a "slave"...etc! Ladies, don't let your man run your life. Be in control. Now, guys, don't think I'm telling them to dominate, but I am telling them to have some control because men shouldn't dominate either.