7/13/2007

Old School Love

You all know that I mainly only chill with boys, so they always ask me how to be sweet && flattering when they first start dating a girl. Top things they ask me if buying them flowers, teddy bears, chocolates, candy... is wack. (LOL!) Well, sometimes it gets hard for me to answer because I'm a rowdy chick. To me, it's okay for the flowers. Chocolates && candy seem a little too jumpy. "Jumpy" as in it's basically old school && doing things unique to show them you're feeling them is more interesting rather than doing things that everyone else does. I tell them it's okay but it's kind of an old move to do. It's sweet but I always tell them to be a little more unique, be unforgettable.

34 comments:

KAYLEE said...

HEHEH I AGREEE I like more unique gifts too=]

KAYLEE said...

My heart they want to do open heart surgery.

Sweetstickychewy said...

***I always tell them to be a little more unique, be unforgettable.

Great stuff.:)

Evil Spock said...

Open doors and pull chairs for her too.

Cooking for someone is aways key too.

soul&body said...

me too ask to be unique and unforgettable!!! always sweet :)

`NEFTY said...

@ kay, sweet, soul
Thanks for the comments:]

@ spock
Now cooking would be a unique thing to do. Evil Spock is a gentleman:]]]]

Rashi said...

lolz..i agree..

being unique is the way no matter if it takes to show a li'l attitude..gals like tht..

SJ said...

Thanks for the education I hope it's not too late for me being 30 yo and all. LOL.

curryegg said...

You're right.. Something unique is far more better than chocolates..

curryegg said...

And cool display photo..
;)

Lucy said...

It's so funny. No matter how male/man-ish you think you are, guys will always regard you as a girl.

So now you're doling out advice? Interesting.

pinkhippo said...

I agree that I like unique gifts but it need to be from someone I love.

If I got it from someone I dislike, even a big diamond wont bring smile on my face... lol

Neo said...

gimme some tips....might come in handy someday....

KAYLEE said...

YOU OK? YOU HAVENT SAID MUCH LATELY?

choochoo said...

I luves chocolate. But if a guy keeps giving them to me, he might have to expect a little bit of a weight gain. lol.

Rajeev said...

i too could use some tips! ;)
mind givin some! ;) heheh! :D

peace & love
Jeevy

MeMyself_n_I said...

oh yeah, that is so true. unique gestures stay in your mind for so much longer.

lemonade said...

hmm.and that's what u should be telling them! let them think of some more unique ideas to please us girls!

AVIANA said...

ur right sweetie....

the guy needs to be attentive and know what the girl likes....what works for one girl won't work for another....that shows sincerity

Andrew The Asshole said...

thoughtfulness is the best policey... frankly flowers chocolate and a teddy bear are pretty thoughtless unless they are completely unexpected

Barb. said...

i'm chill too.. i like gifts, but i prefer go to somewhere nice, and have a 'unforgettable' day! the secret is 'be yourself'! Bye! have a great weekend

KAYLEE said...

where r u these days?

Dawn....सेहर said...

I agree with the flower thing :)
cool suggestions
Lets hear if they got one or when they get one ;)
Cheers

Nabila Zehra Zaidi said...

guys are lazy...even if you give your friends those 'unique' ideas for their girls....they will end up doing the same 'old school love' thingy...huh...

KAYLEE said...

where art thou?

MzCoko said...

i like chocolates n flowers... becuz its rare that a guy ever does that for me i guess... so it would be unique

KAYLEE said...

DO I NEED TO SEND AFTER YA?

soul&body said...

hello nefty!

Michelle said...

i agree, while chocolates and candy and the other 'obvious' things can be flattering and sweet, its always the unique and creative stuff that gets my heart beating faster ;)

YAZMAR said...

So you a rowdy chic huh? LMAO

`NEFTY said...

NOTICE...
My internet sucks, so I won't be online for a while. Talk to you all sooner or later:]

By the way Yaz, damn fucking right I am.

Epsilonicus said...
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Epsilonicus said...

Good advice!

soul&body said...

where have you been?!!!